Blonde Ambition?

As the wedding plans continue to whittle down on my list of to do's I have one decision that I can't seem to make my mind up over... my hair color.

I know it seems like such a trivial part of everything but I want to have the perfect look on our big day, I want to feel my most beautiful and I want to look back at all of our pictures over the years and know everything was perfect... and that I was perfect!

I like blonde because it's so glamorous and "look at me" pretty, it makes your face brighter and my eye color stands out more when my hair is lighter...

I like brunette because I feel more natural and classic looking, my eyebrows are dark so I feel like it doesn't draw attention to them where as blonde does (to me)...

Having been both hair colors and really liking both colors I'm having a hard time deciding... originally my heart was set on being brunette and my only concern on that was what shade... but then I started to look at more pictures of my "blonde days" and thinking maybe I should be that color?

But I don't want to feel fake on my wedding day... when I got my dress the very first day I had it on I was a light blonde and looking at those pictures I felt like it washed out my features. The second time I had it on for alterations my hair was dark blonde and it looked much better.... now my hair is dark brown and I think it would look great as well.

Very classic and old style glamour...

Dark brown hair, soft waves, my veil... sounds pretty glamorous to me! (or light brown?)

Blonde, soft waves, my veil... sounds pretty... but is it glamorous? (dark blonde?)

There are quite a few friends and family who say blonde and almost the same amount who say brunette...

I'm so confused...